You never know whats going to happin next in Life
Good morring yesterday i decared my day was going to be great no matter what if its your mind set that need changing yesterday was the day for me to face anything and boy was i put to the Test you never know when your life well go up in flames. LOL
I had planed for more then a week to go for the day to work with my boyfriend to see if we could work on a few things and just spend time together i got a felling yesterday morring that i was not to make the trip with him I know he would be angry but something was telling me i was to spend the day with my mom.
She was going to the city i tried to tell myself no i had made the plans i need to stick to them and what did i want to go to the city for anyway i didn't have much money to do shopping . After my friend Aillson posted a photo of how great her hair turned out doing at home and the money she had saved. I wanted to get my hair done by my auntie who use to be a hair dresser.
even with the feeling that i had to pick between my boyfriend or my mom that had not ever said i could go with her at that time i picked getting my hair done and spending the day with my auntie and mom.
I ended up forgeting at home the frost & Tip kit to strike my hair just wanting to hide some of the gray i have been getting seeing as i am not big on the whole new roots hair style and dont' get my hair done more then ones every few years.
We picked up my auntie to go buy another kit mom asked me where i wanted to go I said Sallys my auntie said no if we go there i have to mix all the powders myself and its been along time since i did that Just go to Walmart and get it there then it's already to go and your hair has always turned out good when we have used them in the past.
We get to Walmart what the @@#%^ there is no frosting kits what now I am thinking i go home with out my hair done again just then my auntie says oh wait here is one its not the brand we have used before but it should work just as well . I am thinking ok what ever as long as i get my hair done and feel a little better about the gray's it works for me.
Paid my $12 and went to my aunties house to have her do it just like many times before she pulls the hair through the cap my mom says i don't know why she is doing this anyway, she should be getting it cut short with as hot as its going to be on out trip to graceland. I have had my hair short before when I was having my daughter just because i was sick of my son throwing up in my long hair and pulling it all the time i didn't need two babys sucking on it and everything else. Then when i was in treatment the elders belived if you are starting a new Journey in life and are having trouble letting go if your passed you could cutting your hair off to give new lifes but was the only time you should cut your hair so i got my hair cut again more just in honor of everything they had done for me there.
So yeh right NO WAY i am going to ware braids all summer i just got to wait 45 mins and walla i should have great high lights NOPE not this time after 5 mins I tell my autie ooh shit i think i just got stung by a bee ....there no bee ...i said we must have traped it under the cap because ..ooooh just then my hair bursts up smoke rolling off my head my hair was on fire.
I am trying to rip the cap off thinking that well make it stop my auntie is freaking out yelling at me got over her we need to wash it off your head. My mom is watching well talking on the phone in the other room Laughing her butt off Trish hair just cought on fire and my aunties grandaughter Araya her eyes are the size of grapefuits yelling your hair its smoking its on fire.
( oh i forgot to tell you Araya was watching the whole thing right from the beging because she was getting her hair done righ after me she is like 9 years old and she was getting her hair done right after me she had picked up a frost kit weeks ago that she wanted ) LOL
my hair was falling out left right and center its a huge mess and my head is burnt. Its 8:00 the mall closes at 9 we rush down there to see if i can get this mess fixed. The hair dresser said no way she had someone coming in a few min i told her what happend showed her she said I am sure i can't do it, but if you want to take a sit to make sure my 8:00 show's up you can.
My auntie is on the cell phone crying that it was her fault .Thank God the 8:00 didn't show its my lucky day or maybe not so lucky the more she looked the more burns and more patches falling out, well need less to say i well not be putting my hair in braids this summer like all the others years en she was done cuting it if i wated any treatments in it NO I THINK I AM DONE WITH THAT TONIGHT
I guess some things are just ment to happen my head is a little sore but i did learn that it was ok to LOL at yourself i told my mom i am glad i could make her LOL and I was thinking about my friend Amanda and her cucumber hair the other night after the top blow off her blender when she was making a green smoothie if it was not for her post telling us it was ok to laugh at your self i would have been crying for sure
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I still love you Auntie Melinda LOL
My day ended with me a little lighter, a few burns that well go away in a few days, a family that had a great laugh, my $12 back from Walmart that i end up using towards the hair cut and a lesson in life that its ok to be happy even if it comes from laughing at yourself thanks amanda. I well post a photo of the aftermath as soon as i get one.